It may seem like I've had a lot of parties....we like to party. But here we go, one last time, to say "Good Luck" just before I leave for Las Vegas!
Reasons you should come:
Finally an informal event with NO TICKET.
Therapy is awesome.
Scott Alan is performing. 'nuf said. Just come for that.
Broadway is dark.
You are going to have a cocktail on Monday at 6:00 after work anyway.
You've never cared about Miss America before, but now you want to watch. (Jan 15 9pm EST ABC)
You work at Apple, and since I don't anymore, I miss seeing you.
Appolonia Cruz is going to bring the drag entertainment to the evening. She's a diva.
You just may get to take a picture with someone who becomes Miss America.
You could sell your autograph card on ebay if I win and make back the price of your drink.
We are selling I <3 Miss New York Tshirts to continue fundraising for my Miss America expenses and we need your help.
JoJo is going to be there. My mom, not the 12 year-old pop star. How old is she now?
You are some part of the LGBTQ/A community, and I am fighting with YOU.
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Friday, December 31, 2010
Thursday, December 30, 2010
Home for the Holidays
I took a great trip home to my family for a few days and had a total vacation in the best sense of the word. I really wanted to use it as an escape from preparation – of course I made my best attempt to stay on track with that swimsuit thang – but to me, your mental and emotional state and care is equally as important as your physical preparation for Miss America. For one girl, this could be the last she really sees her family for a year; so with hopes that the one girl is me, I made the most of it. As a New Yorker, I’m used to the long distance communication with my family; thank goodness for video chatting! I wish I could bottle up everything that happened in these last few days. You all get to know me from a pageant or advocacy standpoint, but here is a glimpse into my family life.
I was able to spend such wonderful cuddle time and photo ops with my little nephew Logan, took engagement pictures for my sister Hannah and her fiancé, Joel, got a peek at my brother and his fiancé’s new house (6 houses down from my parents), and of course got the best hugs and support from my sister Sarah as we bonded over sangria-making, along with shopping with mom and hot tub talks with dad. I was able to visit my grandma in her new home and visit her new friends at the memory care facility as Miss New York, and spent Christmas with my other grandparents and cousins, complete with laughter yoga led by Sarah.
My family hosted two “Cookies with Claire” parties for me, and wow, I am so blessed. I was able to see sooo many people – people from high school, church, dance, family friends, Miss Indiana folks, aunts and uncles, people from every facet of my life who have come together in support of this exciting journey. I am just so lucky, I can’t even explain it…and thankful.
The blizzard only stopped me for a 24-hour delay. I had a successful standby trip back to Newark (I’m at the airport now) and it will work out perfectly for me to pick up my evening gown from Red Carpet master alterations seamstress wonder woman Debbie! And then it’s home to unpack and get things ready to repack…but this time for Miss America!! Butterflies writing that!!! Keep you updated in the next few days – only thing I really have scheduled besides working out, errands, last minute shopping (interview shoes – yikes!), dancing, etc is January 3rd at Therapy at 52nd and 9th Ave from 6:00-9:00 – come have a good luck cocktail!!
Wednesday, December 29, 2010
Hetrick-Martin Institute & The Big Apple Circus
Many of you remember the movie “MILK” or perhaps have heard of the Harvey Milk High School in New York City. I was incredibly fortunate to meet with the executive director of the Institute last week and learn about amazing work that they do in supporting 1500 of NYC’s most vulnerable and at risk youth. Literally, they are saving lives every day through their unending giving and support, mentally, emotionally, creatively as well as their resources available not limited to health and wellness, HIV medical care, education, shelter, clothing, food, and more. Beneath the Hetrick-Martin Institute, the Harvey Milk High School is only structured for 100 students. This may seem and is small, especially in comparison to the 1.1 million kids in New York City public schools (The Milk School is a public transfer school), however, work in this intimate environment is exponentially more effective. The school doubles as a community center after hours and is available through age 24, with GED programs available as well. The kids who (mostly voluntarily) transfer to the Harvey Milk School are usually overage and undereducated for a variety of reasons, making their education process and needs even more unique. I cannot wait to become more involved – they have photography classes as a main outlet of creativity and expression, and a class on social media – hello!
Alison and I also braved the cold for a few holiday photo attempts at Lincoln Center in our scarves. Mine kind of looks like a neck brace, but I promise, it’s ok. Hahaha J Happy Holidays from Alison and Claire, as well as the entire board of the Miss New York Organization!
In a complete shift (I love this about my job as Miss New York), just before the Christmas holiday, I went to the Big Apple Circus where I was a guest ringmaster! It was so awesome – the Kenyan acrobats, jugglers and clowns, music, humor, miniature horses, crazy handstand man, and Mongolian bendy girls – all of it! I had never been to the circus before (except Cirque du Soleil which is a little different) so it was just a blast. Alison was able to come with me and wave from the audience as well. They handed me the mic and said I could say anything I wanted, so of course I asked everyone to pull out their phones and vote for Miss America! What a great way to end my appearances in 2010.
Alison and I also braved the cold for a few holiday photo attempts at Lincoln Center in our scarves. Mine kind of looks like a neck brace, but I promise, it’s ok. Hahaha J Happy Holidays from Alison and Claire, as well as the entire board of the Miss New York Organization!
Sunday, December 19, 2010
I [heart] Miss New York Tshirts!
What will you be wearing in Las Vegas
-OR-
at your at-home viewing party for
Miss America LIVE! on ABC January 15th 9-11pm EST
???
Name:
Address:
Phone:
Size, Quantity, Purple or Pride Edition (Rainbow)
We'll get a Google Checkout link right to you so that you can pay online (s/h added).
Thank you for your support!!
November 16- November 19th
Hello Friends!
Time has really flown by and it seems as if Fall has ended as quickly as it started! November 16th and 17th were spent rehearsing my dance routine, having some of my Miss America wardrobe fitted and a mock interview in Wilmington. Thursday, I woke up early to rehearse my dance and then visit one of my favorite sponsors, Carrie at Hockessin Day Spa for a facial and peel! Immediately after, I met my Executive Director, Debi to attend the "Celebrity Squares" event at the DuPont Country Club in Wilmington. It was an honor to be one of the "celebrities" chosen for this fundraiser and even more importantly, it was humbling to hear the stories of the women who the money raised in years prior has helped to pay for their higher education. The woman who spoke that night was a young mother who may not have been able to receive her high school diploma, let alone enter college. But, God has blessed her so much through this foundation, that she will be graduating with her Bachelor's Degree this spring. All of the questions I was asked that night were Delaware-related; thankfully!
Friday, November 19th, I visited the gym and ran all the errands I was unable to take care of throughout the week. That evening I was asked to serve as the Keynote Speaker at Eagle 97.7's Delmarvalous Women Event which honored women from all walks of life for excelling in their careers or in their service to the community. It was my honor and my pleasure to speak that evening and meet all of the "Delmarvalous Women"! Politicians, Stay-at-home mothers, servicewomen, teachers, nurses and beyond were recognized that evening and it warmed my heart to see them have a moment to shine! I decided to bring my mother as my guest and travel companion that evening because she is my "Delmarvalous Woman" and she is a true superhero. If we have never met before, then you may not know the story of my family.
A few years before I was born, my father was serving as a Ssgt in the United States Air Force. He and my mother had not been married long when he was given orders to serve in Germany. My parents loved living there! But, one day my father was driving home and his car stalled on train tracks where he inevitably was involved in a near-fatal accident. The train crushed his car, and my father was declared dead on the scene. But, one of the responders decided to do everything he could to revive my father. God had a greater plan for my dad, and after having 1/4 of his brain removed and replaced with dental cement, along with other procedures, he was revived. From the effects of the accident, my father went through months of rehabilitation and he was declared 100% medically retired and disabled from the USAF. My father has not been able to work or drive since I was born, and my mother became the sole provider for our family. She is the strongest person I know, even though she has always worked three jobs, she still finds the time to volunteer and give back. She has been the greatest role model because she never complains about the cards life has dealt her, and she is still a woman of great faith. I thank the Lord everyday for the family I have and for the values they have instilled in me. They have taught me what is truly important in life.
Both of my parents have taught me, "Faith means being sure of the things we hope for and knowing that something is real even if we do not see it." (Hebrews 11:1)
I hope you have a calm and peaceful evening everyone!
Love,
Kayla
Time has really flown by and it seems as if Fall has ended as quickly as it started! November 16th and 17th were spent rehearsing my dance routine, having some of my Miss America wardrobe fitted and a mock interview in Wilmington. Thursday, I woke up early to rehearse my dance and then visit one of my favorite sponsors, Carrie at Hockessin Day Spa for a facial and peel! Immediately after, I met my Executive Director, Debi to attend the "Celebrity Squares" event at the DuPont Country Club in Wilmington. It was an honor to be one of the "celebrities" chosen for this fundraiser and even more importantly, it was humbling to hear the stories of the women who the money raised in years prior has helped to pay for their higher education. The woman who spoke that night was a young mother who may not have been able to receive her high school diploma, let alone enter college. But, God has blessed her so much through this foundation, that she will be graduating with her Bachelor's Degree this spring. All of the questions I was asked that night were Delaware-related; thankfully!
Friday, November 19th, I visited the gym and ran all the errands I was unable to take care of throughout the week. That evening I was asked to serve as the Keynote Speaker at Eagle 97.7's Delmarvalous Women Event which honored women from all walks of life for excelling in their careers or in their service to the community. It was my honor and my pleasure to speak that evening and meet all of the "Delmarvalous Women"! Politicians, Stay-at-home mothers, servicewomen, teachers, nurses and beyond were recognized that evening and it warmed my heart to see them have a moment to shine! I decided to bring my mother as my guest and travel companion that evening because she is my "Delmarvalous Woman" and she is a true superhero. If we have never met before, then you may not know the story of my family.
A few years before I was born, my father was serving as a Ssgt in the United States Air Force. He and my mother had not been married long when he was given orders to serve in Germany. My parents loved living there! But, one day my father was driving home and his car stalled on train tracks where he inevitably was involved in a near-fatal accident. The train crushed his car, and my father was declared dead on the scene. But, one of the responders decided to do everything he could to revive my father. God had a greater plan for my dad, and after having 1/4 of his brain removed and replaced with dental cement, along with other procedures, he was revived. From the effects of the accident, my father went through months of rehabilitation and he was declared 100% medically retired and disabled from the USAF. My father has not been able to work or drive since I was born, and my mother became the sole provider for our family. She is the strongest person I know, even though she has always worked three jobs, she still finds the time to volunteer and give back. She has been the greatest role model because she never complains about the cards life has dealt her, and she is still a woman of great faith. I thank the Lord everyday for the family I have and for the values they have instilled in me. They have taught me what is truly important in life.
Both of my parents have taught me, "Faith means being sure of the things we hope for and knowing that something is real even if we do not see it." (Hebrews 11:1)
I hope you have a calm and peaceful evening everyone!
Love,
Kayla
LET'S TALK ABOUT BULLYING
If you are available tomorrow, December 20, you should spend the evening listening to these stories. Friends from college have put together a play of stories about bullying.
We have anonymously collected stories from across the NYC area: stories about being the victim of bullying, those who perpetuate it, witness it, are taking steps to stop it, and everything in between. Collected stories have been turned into monologues and pieced together for a night of live, honest theatre in an new, original play we're calling "Let's Talk About Bullying". Through our efforts, we can hear stories that let us know IT GETS BETTER.
We have anonymously collected stories from across the NYC area: stories about being the victim of bullying, those who perpetuate it, witness it, are taking steps to stop it, and everything in between. Collected stories have been turned into monologues and pieced together for a night of live, honest theatre in an new, original play we're calling "Let's Talk About Bullying". Through our efforts, we can hear stories that let us know IT GETS BETTER.
The play will be performed on:
Monday, December 20th @ 7:30pm
45th Street Theatre (between 8th and 9th)
Suggested donation of $5
ALL proceeds will go directly to PFLAG NYC - Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays.
You can visit Smarttix.com to reserve a ticket or email itgetsbetterplay@gmail.com
Tuesday, December 14, 2010
So many blogs...
I've been blogging my little fingers off, so to ease your viewing of these many exciting posts, I'll put up some shortcuts!
- My Miss America Send Off Party
- The reveal of our It Gets Better video
- A week of inspiration from NY's youth - School Visits
- My Empire State Pride Agenda Fall Dinner Leadership Award Acceptance Speech
- Trip to Atlanta for talent costume, the dentist, and Kennesaw State University
- VOTING for America's Choice Finalists in Miss America 2011 >> Side bar of every page
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